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Thursday, 3 December 2009

at the station


When I was in my late teens, I prided myself on being able to pull an analogy out of anything.  I think I even gave a 'life lesson' from a pear, once.  It was a little bit on the silly side so I try and only make meaningful analogies these days!  (Me silly?  Surely not! - cue all my friends cracking up...) Travelling always sets me going though, especially train travel.  I was travelling by train this weekend.  I had my journey all pre-booked, seats reserved, everything.  I got to the station, and they eventually announced my first train was cancelled!  Which of course meant everything went out - I would never make the connections to the next two trains.

It worked out okay.  Despite the delay in the beginning, the 'alternative' route was fine - and actually I got to see bits of countryside I usually don't, as I'm taking a different way.  But of course, I started to ponder...

When it comes to catching or changing trains, when you have made a specific reservation for a certain seat and train and time - one of the worst things that can happen is that the train is cancelled. And when a train gets cancelled, all bookings are off. 

My experience is that once I'm over the frustration and shock - and sheer weariness - I simply change tack.  It needs to be handled differently.  It becomes a matter of catching the best train you can in your circumstance.  It's not the way you planned or the schedule you wanted.  You have to let go of your expectations and take the journey one stage at a time.

There are positives to this - you're not worrying about being late for the next train on your schedule.  It simply no longer applies.  You take each step as it comes.

Now, here I go with the analogy...

When life doesn't fit with our plans, when one change puts the whole thing out of whack, when nothing makes the sense you wanted it to - you are left with trust.  (Quick thinking, advice, and keeping calm are also good ingredients!)

Trust that, although the wait may be much longer than what you bargained for, there will, eventually be another train.  A different train.  It may take you by another route entirely, giving you a view of something you never knew you would see. 

When I was that somewhat silly teenager I wrote a somewhat silly song, but I remember one line: 'The train I'll catch at the station is worth the waiting.'  Sometimes we feel completely left behind.  Sitting in the station when everyone else is boarding trains.

But there's a train coming.

For us.

7 comments:

Momma G.Love said...

Great analogy!

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Anonymous said...

You're the most serious person I know. *grins*

When God cancells a train, He always sends another. :o)

Kinda like that closes a door, opens a door thing.
Hugs, Tiggs

Hannah said...

I totally agree with your philosophy..."There's a train coming." Although it doesn't seem like it sometimes, I have found that when I'm feeling blue, another Train does eventually always arrive.

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Mulled Vine said...

I think sometimes we need to deliberately deviate from carefully made plans just so we don't forget the joy and freedom of thinking on our feet and walking on the wilder side of life.

Its only when you let go that you learn to trust (in God or yourself, depending on your world view)

If the rest of your song was like that line I'm sure it wasn't silly at all. :)

Robert

Em said...

So very true.

Some of my favorite experiences came from "missing" a particular train. How boring would life be if it turned out exactly like we thought it would?

Stopping by from SiTS. Adore your blog!

Kelli said...

I really liked this post. Thanks. Always nice to read.

The Blonde Duck said...

I really like that analogy. I find I tend to be a control freak--I always want to know what I'm doing for the day, but when things happen to disrupt it or change plans, sometimes it's much nicer than I would have ever thought.

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